Using sex for someone to commit to you?

So true many guys tell a female what they wan to hear just to have sex then bye-bye birdie. Sex usually is a one sided affair they are only thinking about themselves. . Emotional bonding with a female comes mind blowing lovemaking. If you want to find out what they want make them earn the right to love you don't be so ready to give it away. I have had my share of one night stands and one day looked this lady in the eyes and know she was special. and she has brought the best out of me. I have found my princess. I have not looked at another female the same way.