Saturday, August 6, 2011
Is accepting a drink from another guy fair grounds for a break-up?
Dear girl....it sounds as if your boyfriend is not as commited to the relationship as you are. You didn`t do any major horrible thing..and I suspect your boyfriend is using this an an excuse to distance himself from the relationship. Look at it this way if the shoe was on the other foot would you behave this way? No of course not..and you can see by the male replies here that most guys wouldn`t either.Remember this..if he behaves this way over such a minor issue..what will he be like down the line if there is a major problem to confront?Don`t chase him to "repair" the relationship as he will probably become more distant...Living with such a man would be a trial..keep that in mind.You have apologized and done your bit and anything more will now be grovelling....do not grovel to this man. You are not a bad person..Keep your dignity.and get on with your life..The more unavailable you are the more he will reconsider..it is the nature of men...If he wants to contact you he will..and if he doesn`t then there is nothing you can do..except find yourself a nicer and more easygoing guy. which may be a blessing in disguise...Good luck
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